How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 19:18
What I need from you?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why do very skinny girls get more male attention if it is true that men like curves?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Can supporters of gun control explain the purpose behind a gun registry?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
What topics are okay with you in comics and what topics should be totally off the table?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Why do older siblings always hate younger siblings?
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
When was the first time you suck on a penis?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why do narcissist move on so easily?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
That's it for today.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
How is bestiality wrong, but killing animals for sport or trophies is considered okay?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why are there so many girls and not enough boys to follow?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Do empaths fall easier for abusive people?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Procrastinates a lot.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.